Sunday, May 29, 2011

Bad Parents

After a super late night of eating yummy leftovers, watching a Netflix movie, and just hanging out chit-chatting, we closed up shop for the night as usual and we all hit the sack. I love this time of year... for it's not super blistering hot yet, but it's not bone-chilling cold either. The weather is somewhere in the middle and when all the windows are open the house gets a nice cool breeze flowing through, not to mention how much the Key-Dens love listening, smelling and looking out wishing they were big & brave enough to be outside cats!

The last thing I remember was looking & calling out for Ming & Bing as I headed for bed... and then very quickly giving up as my tired head hit the pillow. Jei & I both thought it was pretty weird not being woken up, smothered, bothered and annoyed by the cats throughout the night and early morning, but we really didn't pay much attention or care... as our uninterrupted sleep was much more important. But that only lasted until we both were rudely awakened early the next morning by the unmistakable sound of a cold, hungry, & frightened little kitty "meow" that was coming from the front porch. Our bedroom window was open, so it was quite impossible to try and ignore the sad cry for help and go back to sleep.

Neither one of us really recognized the distinct "meow"... but we just figured it was one of Bing's new friends he had made from the week prior. I tried my best to sleep through it and ignore the repeating "meow's", but being the crazy cat-lover I am, there was no way I could ignore a poor homeless cold little Key-Den. So I got up, slipped on some flip-flops, opened the front door and barely made it out of the threshold before my jaw hit the floor and I froze in complete shock! I'm pretty sure if I had seen President Obama himself standing on my front porch, I would have been less surprised than I was when I saw who it actually was!

There on the railing stood our precious little Ming on all fours... with the most horrified look on her face! Naturally, I was in complete shock and wondering two things: if I was still sleeping and all this was a dream... and how in the world did she get out of the house?! I quickly grabbed her and she clung onto me for dear life! I brought her back in and as I walked into our room with her in my arms, Jei raised up out of bed with the most bewildered look on her face. Like me, she couldn't believe it was Ming that was "meowing" outside our window, nor could she understand how she got out in the first place.

After briefly giving Ming some lovings on our bed, we quickly turned our attention to Bing. He too was missing and not in the house... so I went back onto the front porch to try and find him. There was no sign of Bing out front, so I went back inside to go check the back of the house and as soon as I approached the sliding glass door... there went Bing running up to the door "meowing" telling me to let him in already!

Needless to say, we were extraordinarily relieved to know our two sweet Key-Dens were okay and safely inside the house. And after a few minutes of deep thought... we finally realized what had happened. We recently got into the habit of leaving open both the sliding glass door as well as the sliding screen door that leads to the screened-in back porch... both for cool air purposes, but more importantly, so that Ming & Bing can roam freely out onto the porch, which they thoroughly enjoy.

So as we all got ready for bed the previous night, Jei & I went around the house and closed some of the windows... to include the sliding glass door, so we wouldn't freeze come 4 O'clock in the morning. Of course without us knowing it, as Jei slid the glass door shut and locked it, we inadvertently left Ming & Bing out on the back porch... without any food, water, or warm little place to sleep! I'm sure by early morning Ming had had just about enough of the cold... and told Bing to standby, for she was going on a mission!  

Ming had somehow managed to push out on the screen door just enough to wiggle herself out. Once she was out, she amazingly found her way to the front of the house, climbed up the stairs, jumped up on the railing, and cried her little lungs out: "Hey Jackasses... you left me & my brother outside all night in the cold without food and water!  Wake up!!!"

Naturally, Jei & I felt absolutely awful and couldn't believe we didn't notice them being gone throughout the night! Needless to say, after feeding them a nice big meal, we gave them both as much loving attention as they could possibly handle. But that still didn't make us feel any better about it... and with us being a little over five months pregnant, the last thing we wanted to think of ourselves as was... bad parents!

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Goin' Bananas for Baby!

Woo-hoo... we're more than half way there!

We started week 21 this past week and with my baby-bump getting a little more noticeable, we're really starting to get exctied! Baby this week is approximately 10.5 inches long and should have eyebrows... and if he has hair on his head at birth, it's already started to grow. Baby can now taste what momma eats... so I don't think our kid is going to be a vegetarian, and I'm sure he'll have one heck of a sweet-tooth!!!  

Baby's heart is getting stronger and is beating at about 156 bpm these days. And speaking of 'stronger'... his kicks have gotten pretty crazy lately! He is so much more active now than ever before and I just love feeling him move & kick... although every time I tell Alec to feel, Baby refuses to show-off for his daddy! Looks like he's gonna be a Momma's Boy!



128 days left!!!

Sunday, May 15, 2011

Neighborhood Friends

Knock - Knock - Knock... "Can Ming & Bing come out and play?"



So the other day we were all hanging out in the kitchen when suddenly two little Key-Dens appeared in the back yard!



We had never seen them before, but they were very friendly and curious.


Ming of course was incredibly antisocial,
and didn't want anything to do with them...


But Bing was very sweet & tried his best to make some new friends!



They hung out for the longest time... and didn't even run away when Jei & I tried to come out and get close!  


Not sure if they were just curious, trying to be friendly, or just wanted some food...


But either way, they were both incredibly cute and oh-so-friendly!  So much so that Jei turned to me at one point and said, "I would so take them in... but I don't think I could handle four!"  


So even though we both thought about taking them in for the briefest of moments... we knew it wouldn't be such a good idea so we just let them be free! Besides, we really didn't want to be known as the "Crazy Cat People"!!! 

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

No longer an "it"

After days, weeks, and months of speculation...
we finally found out what our little baby is going to be:
It's a BOY!!!





And just in case there were any doubts...
his little 'twig & berries' made a spectacular appearance for all to see! 



This one was definitely one of our favorites! 
Little baby's foot with all five toes clear as day!


The technician tried her best to get the bottoms of both feet at the same time...
but this was just about the best she could do.


And this one was when he decided to raise his (right?) arm trying to wave to his Mom & Dad as they watched in complete amazement!



"See you in late September!"

Monday, May 9, 2011

Mother's Day Brunch

Sunday arrived with overcast skies, lots of wind, and some rather chilly weather!  So unfortunately, our Mother's Day brunch had to be moved indoors.  Once everyone was up and had arrived though, the kitchen became a mad house and people were hungry... so no one really cared where it was!    




We took full advantage of Chef Gema's skills 
and requested her fabulous lemon & chocolate chip scones...


As well as a couple of delicious Peach Cobblers!


By the time everything had finished baking and the food was ready to serve, we all were incredibly hungry and ready to dive into all the delicious food!  (I don't think Momma Soch was too happy with me when I inadvertently directed her attention away from her food for a moment just to take a picture!) 


After killing ourselves with bacon, sausage, eggs, fruit, scones and peach cobbler... we moved into the living room for a few laughs!


And then of course all the Mothers and Mothers-to-be 
were appropriately honored with wonderful Mother's Day gifts.





It was a special day... celebrating the courage, strength, love, and the lives of three very special women in our family!  Thank you for spending your day at our house!  We hope you had a wonderful Mother's Day. 

Sunday, May 8, 2011

More Presents!!!

With it being our first weekend settled back at home, and of course Mother's Day being on Sunday... we all agreed that it would be a great idea to have all the girls down from L.A. to spend the weekend with us celebrating!  And on Saturday, it was our belated April birthdays that we celebrated first!

The day started out warm & sunny... but then the wind picked up, the clouds moved in, and it got a little too chilly to have our feast outside... so we moved indoors where everyone was warm and happy!
  
As usual, I was the grill-master... in charge of feeding eight hungry mouths! 
 

Meanwhile, the Birthday Girl was in charge of getting everything ready to eat.


After stuffing our faces with some really good food... we all gathered into the living room to celebrate our birthdays with lots & lots of presents!


 Naturally, Ming & Bing had front row seats to see all the excitement! 




After all the wonderful gifts had been opened, it was time for Chef Gema to strut her stuff!  We all slowly migrated back to the dining room table and waited for the grand finale!  


We had cake-pops and petit fours to snack on, all made by the chef herself... but I think we all were really looking forward to digging into her five-layered chocolate cake!


The weather ended up being rather crummy... but with great food, amazing desserts, and a house full of wonderful company, our belated birthday celebration turned out to be lots of fun!


Thank you girls for driving down, for all the great gifts, and for making us feel so dorky... er, I mean special!  

Friday, May 6, 2011

Week 19

I think I fully realized just how long we had been away from home when I couldn't remember which drawer our silverware was in as I was unpacking all of our stuff.  Needless to say, it felt sooo good to be back home!  With Alec going back to work, I was left by myself all week to juggle random chores, play time with the Key-Dens, and fighting off boredom!  But surprisingly, I stayed quite busy and made the best out of all my free time... between naps of course! 

One of my goals I wanted to set once I was finally home was to get into a good walking routine. With Roswell being... well, Roswell... I didn't exactly get much exercise besides the few times Alec & I went out golfing, so I knew I had to get my baby-toting rear into gear this week! I managed to talk Alec into walking with me around the lake Monday afternoon on an absolutely gorgeous day.  The good part was that I actually got out and got some much needed exercise... the bad part however, was that I completely over did it! I ended up walking 4 miles... and that night I certainly paid the price!  I had so many aches & pains that I really had trouble sleeping... and of course the next day wasn't very pretty either.  It was a good idea, but I think I was a tad bit overzealous for it being my first good walk. Once I feel "repaired", I'm definitely trying it again... only this time I should have my mom with me and the distance will be cut in half for sure!

We happily entered the 19th week and all is well.  Little 'Butterbean' should measure approximately 6 inches or so from head to booty... which is about the size of a very large mango, but trying to find a 6 inch mango proved to be quite impossible.  So we ultimately had to scratch the fruit/vegetable picture this week, but hope to continue it next week.  He/She (hopefully) can now clearly hear everything around us, responds to light, and is getting a "kick" out of the use of it's tiny little leg joints... as I feel frequent nudges that will soon keep me up at night!



After visiting with former coworkers at the office, a lunch date with a good friend, and a dinner date with another couple this week, the excitment of being home came to a climax when we had our first doctor's appointment since being back on Thursday!  We really didn't know what to expect, but we were excited to finally see our friendly Dr. Neal... and then got super excited when they put us in one of the examination rooms that had an ultrasound machine!  But our excitement didn't last for very long as they ended up moving us into a smaller room that of course didn't have an ultrasound machine.

It ended up being a short visit... but well worth it.  We got to hear the heartbeat again (Yeah!), and got to ask Dr. Neal a bunch of questions in order to ease my paranoia!  But most importantly, he gave us the ultrasound referral paperwork for us to schedule our second ultrasound for the baby's anatomy scan!  And about 20 minutes later, we had our appointment scheduled for Monday, May 9th at 3:00 pm PST.  

So, barring any complications... like someone being too shy to show us the goods, we should know who voted right and who voted wrong by Monday afternoon!  Until then, hope everyone has put in their vote... and may all the current and expecting mothers enjoy their much deserved day on Sunday!  

Happy Mother's Day!